What do you actually want? And how do you get it…?

You know how some people just seem to be living their best lives?

And no, we’re not talking about an Instagram highlight reel here.

But you know those people who seem to really be living their lives for themselves?

Nope, not selfishly. Just so freakin’ authentically.

It almost sounds too good to be true, right?

Well on this episode, Hailey and Brad go on a mission to find out how Paula has pulled off her lifelong journey to live more authentically.

A bit of mining and we cracked the case wide open.

Okay maybe too many metaphors.

Are we spies? Or miners? Or detectives?! Who knows.

Point is: we managed to distill the exact step she’s taken over the years to live a life that screams “Unapologetically Paula!” 😊

The same process she’s used for personal growth, big decision making, getting through tough times, and making her dreams a reality.

So if you often find yourself wondering “What the heck do I wanna be when I grow up?!”

Or “What do I even want right now?”

Or “How do I know if I’ve made the right decision?”

Or “Why does being an adult have to be so hard? Can’t someone just tell me what I’m supposed to do?”

Meet your new best friend:

Self Facilitation [self fuh-sil-i-tey-shuhn]
(noun) A strategy developed by Both Now that helps make being an adult just a little bit easier.
(noun) A process for more easily understanding and actualizing your own dreams and desires.
(verb) To assist yourself in understanding and making your dreams and desires a reality.

So how do you use Self Facilitation?

Easy peasy: check out the Episode Booster for the step-by-step process.